My Papa was borned on 1st October in the mid-1970s. So this post will be more about him than me.
I have a loving Papa. He always tries his best to take care of me even if he has difficulty. Mama still remembers how he actually asked the nurse in Gleneagles Hospital to teach him to carry me when I was a newborn. Papa usually does not ask strangers questions even if some help is needed with say, finding directions. So this incident left a very deep impression on Mama.
See, Papa caring for me very tenderly when I was still a newborn.
When I was slightly older, say, about 6 months old, Mama went out in some evenings to give tuition. Papa was the one who carried me in a baby carrier and mopped the floor at the same time. Whenever Mama mentions this feat to her friends to explain how Mama is bad at using the baby carrier, she never fails to impress her listeners with this feat of Papa. She, of course, is very proud of Papa too.
Papa is also a very creative person. This explains the kind of pranks he played on me.
Papa likes his house to be neat and tidy. Hence, he set up a play corner in the house for me. This is so that the mess I make can be contained to one area as much as possible.
Papa is also a peace-loving person. He was asked what he wanted for Fathers' Day this year and his reply was : Peace and Quiet. To help me adapt to the playpen more easily and not to always cry when I was placed inside, he actually accompanied me in there.
Because of this aspect of his personality, Mama seldom uses cold turkey treatment on me when Papa is at home.
Papa is also my hero. He is the one who has more compassion on me and will carry me in his arms when he comes home from work to find me fussing and ignored by Mama who is either cooking in the kitchen or upset with me for giving her a hard time. Sometimes, he will try to offload Mama a little by taking me with him when he goes for his evening jogs so that Mama can cook in peace. But this is becoming more tedious because I now weigh 10.6kg and it is really not the easiest thing to jog and push the pram with me in it at the same time.
He loves to show me new things and Mama thinks he is very knowledgeable to be able to explain many things to me.
Papa drives a little car and that explains why we can go places like Changi Airport Terminal 3 , Botanic Gardens, the zoo and the beach.
Papa is also my good teacher. Mama had tried to teach me many times that I need to sit down before I come down a slide but I had never quite learnt it. It only took about half an hour for Papa to be with me and taught me how I can sit down and push myself down the slide. Playing with slides had never been the same for me since that morning. :)
Papa is the main breadwinner at home. This allows Mama to be able to stay at home most of the time to take care of me. Papa tries his best to give me a good environment to grow up in.
So you see, I really have a great Papa who always tries his best to take good care of me in ways that he can. Thanks for everything you have done and for being there for me as I grow up, Papa. Blessed birthday to you, Papa and may this be a happy day for you! :)