Dear all,
I am 47 months old. Now, Mama will tell anyone who asks for my age that I am turning 4 next month.
The last month, I really learnt a lot of skills. Now, I can button my own shirt and insist on buttoning my school shirt every morning. The bad thing about this is that I take a long time at this but the good thing is, Mama has since learnt to put me on this task while she goes and do something else like change her own clothes or something.
I had also learnt to write with a pencil. Just this evening, I actually started writing the capital letter A in a writing book after Mama had her dinner. Mama couldn't help but thought to herself I am really grown up as she saw me write on the dots that formed the letter A.
I am also improving a little on the skate scooter Mama bought. When Papa first took me skate scooting he observed that I do not know how to place my feet together after kicking. Now, I can do it and the scooter will move a very short distance of perhaps a few cm. Mama believes with time and practice, I will improve.
As for my verbal skills, Mama would at times recalled how she was rather worried I was using too few single words even at 26 months old when most 2 year-olds would be using 2 words phrases like "play car", "eat food". But just hear me now. I can hold my debate with my parents and I can narrate very simple incidents of what happened in class. For example, before I fell asleep today, I told my mum about my classmate who had a birthday party in school. I told her we sang the birthday song and we took pictures.
The month that passed, I was more interested in speaking in Mandarin. Mama was pleasantly surprised I told I had complained to my Chinese teacher, 于老师, saying, "于老师,Lukas 拉我的衣服。" Now, my mother was not so interested why Lukas pulled my shirt. She was more impressed by the precision of my complaint. At times, I will request for Mama to speak to me in Mandarin and Mama will oblige me too.
I am also learning to write Chinese strokes in school. Once, Mama came home after work to discovered I already know "横,竖,撇, 捺", the first 4 basic strokes used for writing Chinese characters. I could write them in the air using my fingers.
The only problem was, Teacher Karen said I was writing too slowly and she advised my parents to let me practice more writing at home. Papa once witnessed 于老师 tap the table in an attempt to get me to focus and write more quickly.
Sorry, no point hurrying me in anything. Mama has discovered that I seem to be immune to attempts of hurrying me in whatever I am doing. Even threatening me with a cane does not make me go any faster. For example, if I am opening the gate with a key, even if Mama gets impatient with me, I will still open it at my own pace rather than hurry. Mama thinks this is better than some adults. If you hurry these adults when they are opening the gate, they get anxious, fumble and take even longer. Not me. I just go at my steady pace.
Unfortunately, this made my parents smack my head when they run out of patience waiting for me. Also, I am now tall enough for them to smack my head rather easily.
Mama thinks it may be due to the structured environment in my school because on my own accord I actually go to my study table to do work like writing. I may be practising what I do in school. Then again, I will get distracted and sharpen my pencils instead before I settle down to write. And if I am not satisfied with what I had written, I will erase them and write the letter again.
On my 47th month birthday, Papa decided to bring me for a haircut and the hairdresser was instructed to give me a high slope. Now, Papa thinks I look like Homer Simpson from the Simpsons family. This is not very good as I probably get penalised for misbehaviour more easily at home.
Ok, that is all for the moment. Mama will try to upload the pictures another day. Thanks for reading so far. :D